appreciate them

appreciate those who have hurt you
because they strengthen your heart

appreciate those who deceive you
because they improve your wisdom

appreciate those who slander against you
because they improve your personality

appreciate those who whip you
because they arouse you will to fight

appreciate those who abandon you
because they teach you independence

appreciate those who make you stumble
because they strengthen your legs

appreciate those who denounce you
because they remind you of your shortcomings